Attraction Methods

Few weeks back I had a phone consult with a client. Obviously he was having trouble with women. He told me it had been a while since he had a woman. I started by asking him a few questions which I do on all my calls. Within a minute I recognized what was going on.


Talking to him I could tell he was very normal and in tune. I could tell he was very insightful and socially in tune – except he was a little too much of a thinker and caretaker.


I discussed this with him and he agreed.


In his case he is someone who likes to be proper all the time. He is someone who wants to respect everyone’s boundaries. He would never want anyone to get upset or face inconvenience on his behalf.


Because of his thinking he does not like to risk upsetting women by approaching them at an inopportune time or in an improper fashion. In his mind he would have caused women inconvenience if he finds upon approaching that they do not want to speak to him.


He does not feel motivated to take any action because he has taken two workshops in the past and has still not gotten past the approach anxiety. 


In his mind there is something wrong with him that he cannot get results despite taking workshops with two very popular companies.


Let me address these issues one at a time.


First of all every woman on this planet wants to be approached. 


There is no inopportune time to approach a woman. Stop worrying about how a woman would feel when you approach her. It is not your problem. You are not doing anything wrong but merely complementing her by letting her know that she is desirable. 


Don’t think you are invading her space or encroaching her privacy. If a woman does not want to talk to you she will let you know.


It is not your responsibility to guard her space and privacy. You are not incharge to ensure she is feeling happy and comfortable. Women are capable of taking care of self. If they need someone to care for them they will call their dad.


You are a man so do what men do. Do what is expected of men: Be a man.


Men are attracted to women. Men desire the company of beautiful women. When you spot a woman you like, do what you are supposed to do: approach and make her yours.


The only thing you do by approaching a woman is pay her a compliment. Your approach is a sign that she is desirable. 


Who does not want to be desired? Don’t you? What if a fat ugly woman approaches you and says she wants to give you a blow job? Would you be flattered a woman found you desirable or would you be offended that she is not good looking?


No matter who you are no matter how insecure or limited you feel about self by approaching a woman you are paying her a compliment. So no need to hesitate. Would you ever hesitate to make a child smile? Would you ever hesitate to volunteer your services to help mankind? Then why would you hesitate and deprive a woman from an opportunity to feel good about herself?


Women want to be approached and they prefer it to happen the right way.


Instead of spending energy on why women would not appreciate your approach think how you can become someone that women want to be approached by. Work to transform yourself into a guy women desire all the time and you will never be in bed alone. Cultivate the traits desirable to women and you will be dating beautiful women in no time at all.


NO – you don’t have to be rich or good looking. You do not have to do anything to impress them. There is no need to demonstrate high value. There is something else that turns women on.


I approach women wearing shoes with holes in them and missing soles. My jeans are all torned at the bottom. 


Here is a picture of what I wear when I go out to approach women during our workshops: Image Link


I even tell women as part of my interaction that I am broke. I recently did a set in Chicago where the woman replied every musician is broke. I replied honey you don’t understand. I am more than the homeless guy on the street. She loved it.


Read the Social Mastery book. I have put a list of these inside the book for you to use.


The second part was this guy losing motivation and developing self doubt unfortunately comes from the poor training he received. What he went through is not uncommon. I have trained many students who have taken multiple workshops in the past with no success.


In fact I once trained a client who had taken 9 workshops before he found me. As a result of taking those workshops he had become way too socially awkward and was getting no results. I trained him and within three days he had his first one night stand.


Look man it is unfortunate that this happens. It is unfortunate that there are companies who do not know what the hell they are doing but don’t let that bother you. Don’t stop taking action or you will never go anywhere.


You only get to live once and you cannot die without accomplishing everything you desire.


If you are serious to make a change and fix this area of your life take a chance and sign up for my workshop. See what my coaching can do for you. There will be no bullshit or gamey stuff straight and simple results.


I won’t teach you anything that is fake because it’s counterproductive.


Look guys I have done this over and over for a while now. I have testimonies after testimonies. But all of that does not matter. The only thing that matters is can this happen for you? 


My answer is yes, 100% percent, it can happen for you. That’s why all of my bootcamps have a 100% money back guarantee.


If you sign up for a workshop and do everything I ask you to do – NOTHING will stop you from succeeding.


Give me a call if you want to discuss your situation before signing up or just go to my website and sign up here.


Come to my bootcamp and let me be responsible for get you success with women.


Talk to you soon!

I recently spoke at a Dating Conference in New York City.

After the conference a lot of students came to me 

for meet and greet, and I realized that there are lot 

guys who are victims of "Pick Up Myths".  

I’ve compiled the absolutely inconsistent, and 

damaging and most importantly TIME WASTING myths

that most pickup artists try to convince you are FACTS.

In this two part email I’m going to reveal what those

will only discover after being infield for a LONG TIME.

I will first discuss ten myths that you need to ignore.

Then I will hand you specific ways to dramatically 

jump your game so you start succeeding with beautiful

women.

Let’s get started on the BIGGEST myths of pickup…

MYTH #1: Beautiful women get approached all the time

Every time I taught a workshop or give a seminar, which

was a TON of them last year, I made it a point to ask 

the guys in attendance to raise their hands if they 

approach "9-10s" on a regular basis. Only one or two 

students out of hundreds raise their hands.

I know it sounds NUTS that beautiful women get 

approached LESS than other women, however… 

I want you to talk to any good looking women and they 

will tell you that they hardly get approached in any 

meaningful way by men.

MYTH #2: Having a wingman is a good

Many big dating experts say that a wingman is an asset

that will add value to The WORST thing you can do to 

limit your success with women is to have a wingman.

If the wingman does not know what he is doing he will 

destroy ALL interactions.

If he is better than you he will get all the attention

and you will be home empty handed… yet again.

MYTH #3: Using negs to bring a woman’s value down

A light insult wrapped in the package of a compliment is 

a neg. Negs are used by pick-up artists to gain and maintain 

the attention of women who possess uncommon beauty. 

The conventional wisdom is that these women are immune 

to standard compliments. The fact is that a neg will only 

work on insecure women and genuine compliments are 

NEVER refused or disregarded. 

It’s a HUGE myth that will hurt your game.

I only date women who have self-esteem. I let them know 

that I admire them for who they are by giving them genuine

compliments. It never fails if done correctly. 

This does not make me "needy" or desperate. It makes 

me a confident guy who goes after what he loves. You 

don’t need to bring down a woman’s value if you’re confident 

and have a great, fun vibe. 

MYTH #4: Nice guys don’t get laid

It’s the shy guy who has trouble getting laid. I am a

nice guy because I do not lie or cheat but I get laid

on regular basis. You do not have to play games or

tricks to pull a woman into your sack. You just have to

act like a man to seduce her.

MYTH #5: Women don’t want to have sex

Sure, every woman craves to go back home to play with

her rabbit. Women are just as sexual as men, sometimes

I wonder if they aren’t MORE sexual than men.

They only sleep with men that are sexual, non-judgmental 

and safe. If you know how to demonstrate the combination 

of those special three you will be fine.

MYTH #6: Amog competition

Amog refers to "Alpha Male Other Guys". I have personally 

seen women walk away when two guys fought over her. 

Trying to show off makes you come across as an insecure

guy. 

You can learn the best way to still get the girl without getting

into competition with other men. Another guy talking to my 

target is a bonus for me. She will now realize what a catch 

I am. THINK DIFFERENT!

MYTH #7: Build your value during your interaction

Either you have value or you don’t. If you are valuable

then you have no need to demonstrate it – you will reflect it. 

I’m going to reveal my best SECRET for demonstrating very 

high value. Instead of trying to BUILD my value – I always 

LOWER my value. 

I tell women up front that I am broke, losing hair, and

can’t speak proper English. 

I get laid all the time. 

I love when another guy brags his success to a woman in

front of me. He comes across as trying WAY too hard and

makes me appear relaxed and confident in who I am.

Use this tool with great enjoyment. You’ll notice the difference

immediately.

MYTH #8: Hide your intentions

There is a popular belief among top dating coaches that

if women find out early on that you want them they will

run away. 

Many of these coaches call this "indirect game". They 

believe it will help you fly under the radar so you can

snag the women down the road without her ALERTED

to your REAL intentions.

I let every woman know that I want THEM.

This is exactly what I teach my students. No wonder 

3 out of 4 students I trained last year got laid within a week 

of my training. And no wonder other companies are still

struggling to get their COACHES laid. (That’s a fact)

Don’t hide your intentions. If nothing else women will be 

flattered that you find them highly desirable.

MYTH #9: It takes hours to get laid

Seduction happens very fast. You can spend hours before

you go for the kiss but you don’t have to. 

If you want to have a one night stand there is no way on this

planet that you have to wait 3 hours before initiating the

kiss. You gotta go for the kiss within the first

30 minutes and pull her for sex in an hour.

MYTH #10: Get her to a private place before you kiss

Never do isolate a woman from her friends unless the 

woman asks for it. Women definitely have an unspoken AND 

sometimes VERY spoken, competition. When you go for the

kiss in front of her friends she feels rewarded and validated. 

Make sure to win all of her friends before you go for the

kiss so no one objects. If her friends like you, then your

girl will have no problem getting sexual with you. 

MYTH #11: Setting A Date In Advance (Time Bridge)

The concept of "time bridge" is to set up a date 7 days

in advance because women are busy and they make plans.

I got some news for you: if a woman does not enjoy your

company she won’t show up for the date just because she

said she would. And if she really cares to be with you

she will cancel her plans to join you. 

Learn how to generate unstoppable and uncontrollable 

attraction so she wants to be with you and you won’t 

need any time bridging.

Stop right away if you have been using any of these.

You now need to learn the CORRECT and POWERFUL

NATURAL WAYS to attract and get women.

You need to create the right mindset and practices that draw 

stunning but NORMAL and SECURE women into your life. 

If you haven’t already, go download my new book Social Mastery 

and be reading and mastering these skills WITHIN minutes:

==> Click Here to Read More About My Social Mastery Book

After you’ve read Social Mastery you should take the next step, 

and sign up for Live Coaching to let me show you how getting 

women is fun, and easier than you thought. 

These are skills that last a LIFETIME, not just till the next 

seminar when other dating coaches and pickup artists will try 

and get you to waste your hard earned money on.

Seduction is simple and needs no hard techniques. It needs a 

man with social skills and balls of steel! =)

So, read my Social Mastery Book or click reply to this email

if you want to setup a FREE 1 HOUR PHONE COACHING

SESSION as my gift to you for being on this VIP list.

Talk to you soon!

Magic

Some time back I was visiting my friend in San Diego. He had a really cute 24 year old room mate who was single at the time. We hit it right off the bat but I did not want to get sexual with her without discussing this with my friend. After all it was his house that I was staying at and this was his roommate. Besides I did not know what the dynamics were between the two of them.

She started flirting more and more with me. At one point she started showing me her legs saying she shaved them today. Next she started talking about her breasts. She mentioned how she wished her boobs were little bigger. I knew exactly what she was trying to do. I mean you have to be an idiot to miss these screaming signs.

As much as I hate to admit I have missed such opportunities in the past. I remember going on a date few years back. This is when I did not have much experience with dating women. I went on a dinner date and back to her place. She made me sit on the bed right next to her – our bodies touching. I got up to leave and then she walked, held my hands, looked right into my eyes begging for sex. I hugged, said goodbye and left. My faulty belief system at the time did not permit me to believe that women can be as sexual as men. I could not convince myself that my date wanted to have sex the very first night of hanging out with me.

Of course that relationship did not go anywhere.

Coming back to San Diego, I did not miss the signs this time. I did hold back because i wanted to discussed this with my friend before making a move. After she went to bed my friend told me that he was ok if I wanted to sleep with this girl.

Few hours later I woke up to go to the bathroom. I hardly took few steps and noticed something on the floor. I picked it up and it was a black woman’s panty. This was another move on her part to seduce me and obviously it worked. I could not wait till the morning. I used the restroom and went straight to her room and we had crazy sex. Next morning I asked her about it and she confessed that she left her panties intentionally for me to notice.

I knew her panties on the floor were no accident. I knew it was left intentionally because sometime back another girl, I used to go to school with, did something similar. She handed me her basket ball shorts that I needed for an acting scene. She said “smell them and if you like it…” then winked. This was no joke she was serious.

I am not writing this to brag about my conquests with women. I am writing this to make a point: a woman will go out of her way to seduce a man once she is attracted to him. Not all signs will be this obvious. In fact most women will be very subtle in displaying their interest. Make sure you know how to read a woman’s body language. Make sure you know all about the love signals women send so you do not miss any opportunities.

Reading body language and interpreting cues can also help you in the early stages of seduction.

This is a REALITY check.

Answer these questions on a piece of paper:
Take a step back, and really ask yourself….

1. How do you really feel about self? 2. Your life? 3. Where you are in your life, compared to your goals (how close/time line)? 4. Your personal view on yourself image? 5. How do you believe others perceive you (strangers/girls your attracted to)? 6. What do you think they (girls) see when you approach them? 7. What do you think they hear when you speak to them?

Now take a good honest look at what you have written. This is where self-realization will kick in. The motivation to improve your life will kick in. Just reading this post, thinking about what you just read won’t do squat, you’ll quickly forget it. You have to be proactive, something as simple as doing this task will show how much you really want to improve and change your life.

Whatever you wrote, is what you are projecting, girls are picking up on this vibe/energy you are subtly giving off. You are projecting all of this as you walk around in your daily life.

How comfortable you are in your body, how comfortable you are with your sexuality, and how much you love yourself, all of this is what you are projecting out in field.

Are you a leader or a follower? Do you walk around like the king of the jungle, a Lion or a scared cat?

This is what girls and everybody else’s sees and feels when they are around you or look at you. Girls can feel your energy, your power or the lack of. If you have a weak foundation or a weak belief about yourself then those insecurities are what’s going to keep the girls from connecting with you, feeling you, and freely giving you what you really want and she wants. Girls want sex just as much you do, you just keep screwing yourself up.

Become aware of yourself, what’s going on in your head and in your body. Watch your posture, body language, tone of voice, the energy(belief) you’re projecting. This masculine energy (confidence) alone will attract women to you. When you’re out & about walking around or just sitting, become aware of everything your doing and feeling. If you notice your slouching, correct it. If you notice your apologizing for no reason or saying thank you for no real reason except out of habit… change it. All changes come from being consciously aware.

This is part two of the phone interview Magic did for Adonis “Same Night Lay Interview Series.” Adonis has a series of free audio interviews on this topic from experts around the world available on his website http://www.charmingrogue.com/. The interview starts with brief introduction of Magic and his belief system on attracting women. It then becomes specific to the tips and techniques needed to make the same night lay possible.

This is the part one of the phone interview Magic did for Adonis “Same Night Lay Interview Series.” Adonis has a series of free audio interviews on this topic from experts around the world available on his website. The interview starts with brief introduction of Magic and his belief system on attracting women. It then becomes specific to the tips and techniques needed to make the same night lay possible.